Why This Program Works:
Intensives
Do you need an in-person intensive to achieve lasting sobriety? Not necessarily, but they speed up recovery. Your wife wants to see a massive change in you. Our 4-day intensives are the best way to make that change happen quickly.
Mastermind
High-achievers have a unique worldview that is different from most of the population. To recover and get to the root cause of your addiction, you need a group of like-minded men who struggle in the same way that you do.
Camaraderie
You’ve heard it before, and every sex addict will tell you the same thing. It would be best to find men you respect and admire to walk this journey with you. Without proper, deep connections with other addicts, you will delay your recovery.
Accountability
It would be best if you stayed accountable to yourself and other men who are rooting for you to increase your sobriety success rate. We have a daily check-in system that will keep you connected with your group daily and keep sobriety at the forefront of your mind.
Other High-achievers
This is why my group is so successful. Every guy in our program desires a big life full of meaning and impact. High-achievers care deeply about their legacy, and we use this to fuel a full recovery.
Year-round Support
We include everything you need daily, weekly, and monthly to achieve a full recovery and save your marriage. You will be supported all day through our accountability app, weekly coaching calls, and live at our biannual intensives.
How to get started
Complete the application and choose a time to schedule your interview.
To enhance the group connection and provide individual attention, the groups are limited to only 10 men. For this reason, we are very selective with who gets into the program. Please answer the application questions in as much detail as possible so that we can determine if you are a good fit.
Testimonials
With where my marriage was, I needed something that was going to help me quickly. Today, my relationship with my wife is better than is has been in a very long time.
Male, 39, California
I needed a recovery group like this. I’m not sure if my family and I would be where we are today if I had not met Roland.
Male, 42, Georgia
Roland will soon be (if he isn’t already) every sex and porn addict’s go-to for lasting recovery. My marriage is better than ever and I am so thankful that I found this program when I did.
Male, 61, Utah
My Addiction Story
I get too much credit for my business success… Most of it came from a dark place.
Like many high-achievers, my drive came from a desire to be seen as someone important. I spent most of my life dreaming about who I would become and how I would get there. Because I couldn’t seem to please my parents, I always had a bit of anger inside me. What started as just anger towards them would end up turning into anger towards nearly everyone. It was me against the world. One day, “I would prove them all wrong.”
This obsession with being successful and impressing others would end up running my life. It was the fuel behind my every decision. At age 16, when everyone else was playing video games, I was going to networking events. I got my doctorate from Pacific University and opened up my own practice one year later. By 2016, I had multiple locations and had a reputation that was driving further growth.
But, being good at my job wasn’t enough for me. I had to be seen as the best. I went to all of the conferences, became friends with elite players in the industry, and eventually became a keynote speaker on conference stages.
I sold my practice to an investment bank thinking that financial freedom and traveling the world would finally make me feel satisfied. But, 6 months later I was more empty inside than ever before. For my whole life, I kept thinking that the next thing would finally be enough for me… It never was.
On the outside, I looked connected. Everyone knew me, I had friends, I spoke on stage, and I was always connecting with new people. But, on the inside, I was alone. My wife often said to me that she felt like she wasn’t my priority. I would deny it as I had always given her everything I thought a wife could want. But, she was right, I was often more interested in my agenda of becoming someone impressive and important. This was the root of my sex addiction.
My story is a common one for the successful man who has developed a sex addiction, porn addiction, is having an affair, or multiple affairs.
Your driven nature has made you successful. But, it can also make you do a lot of other things that will eventually harm you. And, in the case of sex addiction, it will hurt your wife in the deepest way possible.
To overcome sex and porn addiction, you have to first unlearn everything that made you this way. Then, you can keep the things that make you successful and remove the things that hurt you. I developed a formula that allows you to overcome this addiction and use your gifts in the way that they were intended to be used.
If your wife is like mine, she loves you. She knows how talented you are. And, because of this, she’s going to demand a lot from you. She won’t settle for mediocrity anymore. Your marriage will need to be better than before if you want her to stay with you.
There’s a formula that can make you the man she wants to stay with. A formula that can keep you sober, connect you with a group of men just like you, hold you accountable, and keep this addiction on the top of your mind so that you don’t relapse.